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Pytanie: How do I find out if my husband is gay?
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Answer #1:
Maybe he's asexual.Answer #2:
I dont think he is gay. Maybe he was always shy and quiet. but you were so absorbed with yourself that you just now are noticing.Answer #3:
I know this is very difficult. It just causes you to question everything about yourself and your relationship. It effects everything. This is why it is important to try to find out what is causing this problem - no matter how difficult the truth might be.I don't think he is gay just because he doesn't have sex with you that often. At this moment you are consumed with the gay-thing and it is causing you to not see the real reason he is not intimate with you.
There is obviously something, you have to get to the bottom of it.
Answer #4:
Just becuase he doesn't feel like having sex with you, that makes him gay? Someone is a little full of herself!There are many reasons for his lack of sex drive.
1) Stress
2) Focusing on being a father and family man
3) bored with sex with you
4) Sees sex with you as more about you than him.
List goes on and one.
Answer #5:
I don't think your husband is gay - you've asked him, and he's said no. From the sounds of it, the two of you are simply not sexually compatible. He may have a low sex drive, or simply be more submissive - either would explain his apparent reluctance to initiate sex. Your assumption that he's gay, based solely on your opinion that you're not having sex often enough, is fairly silly. There's a big difference between not being interested in sex with you, and being gay.If you're not happy with your sex life, ask your husband to accompany you to therapy. A relationship counselor can help you both to sort out what you want/need from your relationship, and decide how to go about making each other, and yourselves, happy.
Answer #6:
maybe he is bored of you .Answer #7:
My god! i know exactly how you feel. My partner is exactly the same!!I swear hes gay but im not sure how to prove it.
I think about it like this " its not my problem so im not going to feel bad about myself"
dont let it down you. Tell him if it doesnt get better your leaving.. this is what i have put to my partner currently.
Answer #8:
Maybe he has just grown bored. It is not a reflection on you or your appearances. You have 2 small children that use up a lot of your energy. It sounds like you work together and you say you talk often throughout the day. Maybe that's the problem? Maybe he needs some time to himself, away from you, to remember the things about you that drive him wild. If I were you, I would try and start being a little more independent and doing things apart from him, enjoying life by yourself (not going out clubbing or anything like that...treating yourself to a weekly movie or joining a gym), and see if it renews his interest. Put some effort into it and give it a few months, and see if anything changes. If not, maybe it's time to explore the gay option.Answer #9:
If you have a good relationship with her talk to his mother. If that would be too awkward than search for clues. Does he still look at other women or do anything manly just to let off a little testosterone, I know I do.The clincher may be to befriend a gay guy and see what he thinks, I hear they have acutely accurate gaydars! Or "accidentally take him to somewhere gay guys would be and see how he acts and reacts"
Once you find out his sexual prefrerence you should analyze if this guy is taking care of all your needs. It sounds like he is not and that you keep comparing him to what you are used to is a clue to that.
Answer #10:
well I am going to give you a perfect suggestion. first off you need to try reading some erotic stories to each other. tell him you just want to try to spice up your marriage a bit. tell him, it's not that I wan't anyone else because I don't. I just thought a little fantasy and maybe some light role play may be fun. maybe I'll be your secretary, or you can be a detective coming by to frisk me. then when you start reading stories, stay way fro gay stories for a while. then after about a month, read him a story that has to do with a woman being gay. or a couple with a bi girl. then ask him how he felt about that. then you need to ask why is it, that all men get turned on by 2 women, and women have thoughts of gay men in the same way. say honey, If I gave you the 2 women do you think you could give me the 2 men. at this point you will get your answer. after you get your answer it's up to you to deal with it. but if he is gay. you need to go easy on his feelings. it's ok to be upset. he should have told you. but if you desire to leave him at that point. don't tell him your leaving him because he's gay, but because he has lied. always keep in mind he's your baby's father.Answer #11:
simple test...when engaging in "the do" stick your finger in his butt hole... if he moves away , he's not gay.. if he lets u, well my friend, then there's your answer....Answer #12:
Get a babysitter and follow him. Or hire a private detective. I am serious.Answer #13:
He could have an underlying medical problem like low testosterone.Get him to go to the doctor and get checked.
You could also buy a rubber fist and check his reaction... if he smiles, well, he could be leaning towards joining the other team... not that there's anything wrong with that.
Answer #14:
I think I well be like this when Im married and I am not gay you don't understand the mind of a shy guy.Answer #15:
Hmmm....tough one.Do his underwear have "racing stripes" in them? That would be a good sign of being gay.
I think he just lost his ambition to be with you any longer.....
Answer #16:
Hi Am,I do not believe your husband is gay. Instead I believe a part of the issue has to do with the fact that the two of you have not reconnected after having children. Another part I believe he may be a bit shy, meterosexual, or he may have some feminine qualities. By feminine qualities I mean he may be empathetic, less aggressive, and not as competitive as other males. These type of characteristics as seen in males that are educated or those in roles that requires these traits like nursing or teaching. A final part of it may be that there is an underlying relationship issue that is or is not related having young children.
My advice would be try reconnecting and see if that brings about some of the need changes. Also ease off of the accusations of being and talk to him about what is happening in the relationship recently, then see where things go.
Answer #17:
Here's how you find out if your man is gay. This works everytime and yes, the ladies will vouch for it. When you're having sex (you may have to initiate it again), do a reach around. If he doesn't jump up or get offended, then he's definately gay. The one test that every woman does when she is concerned if her man has gay tendencies and it works every single time. Good luck.** Powered by Yahoo Answers